What to Write in a Wedding Card: 100+ Wishes & Quotes

To avoid cheesy wedding card messages, follow these tips:

• Share a specific memory that’s unique to your relationship with the couple
• Use your authentic voice instead of copying generic messages
• Focus on their unique relationship qualities you’ve observed
• Keep it concise and genuine – shorter messages often feel more authentic
• Include a personal anecdote that demonstrates why their relationship is special

Pro tip: Just like writing a great wedding speech, authenticity matters more than fancy words.

A well-structured wedding card note should include:

1. Opening: Warm congratulations using both names
2. Personal Message: A specific sentiment about the couple
3. Well-wishes: Future-focused positive thoughts
4. Closing: Your signature and relationship to the couple

Example structure:

Dear [Names],
Congratulations on your wedding day! [Personal message about their relationship].
Wishing you [specific future wishes].
With love,
[Your name]

Writing a perfect wedding card involves these key steps:

1. Choose the Right Moment: Write when you’re feeling genuinely reflective and positive
2. Consider Your Relationship: Adjust your tone based on how close you are to the couple
3. Be Specific: Include details that show you know and care about the couple
4. Keep it Balanced: Mix emotion with practicality
5. Proofread: Check spelling of names and overall message tone

Need help? Try our free message generator for personalized suggestions.

Here are some elegant short wedding quotes perfect for cards:

• “Your love story is just beginning.”
• “Today. Tomorrow. Always.”
• “Two hearts, one beautiful journey.”
• “Love and laughter, now and after.”
• “Together is a beautiful place to be.”

Looking for more inspiration? Check our collection of wedding quotes.

The ideal timing for writing a wedding card:

• Before the Wedding: Write 1-2 weeks before if sending with a gift
• At the Wedding: Write the morning of if bringing to the reception
• After the Wedding: Write within 2 months if sending post-celebration

Remember: Just like with wedding speech preparation, timing matters but authenticity matters more.

An ideal wedding card message should be:

• Casual Friend/Colleague: 2-3 lines
• Close Friend/Family: 4-6 lines
• Immediate Family: Up to 8 lines

Quality matters more than quantity. Similar to our advice for wedding speech length, keep it concise but meaningful.