Introduction

Wondering what to write on wedding thank you cards? Crafting the perfect message doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Whether you’re expressing gratitude for guests’ presence, their thoughtful presents, or both, we’ve got you covered. From heartfelt words and practical templates to our free message generator, we make it easy to create meaningful and personalized thank you notes.

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Perfect Thank You Card Formula

4-Part Thank You Message Structure

  1. Personal Greeting: Address guest by name
  2. Express Gratitude: Thank for attendance/gift
  3. Specific Details: Mention gift or presence
  4. Forward-Looking Close: Future plans/hopes

Just like writing a great wedding card, personalization makes all the difference!

Thank You Messages by Gift Type

For Money/Cash Gifts

  • “Thank you so much for your generous gift. We’ll be putting it toward our home renovation plans!”
  • “Your generous contribution to our honeymoon fund will help make our dream trip a reality.”
  • “We’re so grateful for your thoughtful gift – it will help us start our new life together.”

Pro tip: Mention how you’ll use the money without stating the amount.

For Registry Gifts

  • “The beautiful serving set you chose from our registry is perfect! We can’t wait to use it for our first dinner party.”
  • “Thank you for the lovely coffee maker – we’re enjoying fresh coffee every morning and thinking of you!”
  • “The bedding set you selected is absolutely beautiful. Our new home feels so much cozier with it!”

Remember to: Mention how you’re using or planning to use the gift.

For Group Gifts

  • “To our amazing bridal party – thank you all for going in together on the patio set! We’re already planning summer BBQs.”
  • “A huge thank you to the [Company Name] team for the incredible kitchen appliance set. It’s made our new kitchen complete!”
  • “To our wonderful family members who contributed to our honeymoon fund – we’re so grateful and can’t wait to share photos!”

Messages for Attendance (No Gift)

For Local Guests

  • “Having you celebrate with us meant the world. Thank you for being part of our special day!”
  • “Your presence at our wedding made the day even more memorable. Thank you for sharing in our joy!”
  • “We’re so grateful you could join us to celebrate. Your presence was the best gift we could ask for!”

For Guests Who Traveled

  • “We’re touched that you traveled so far to celebrate with us. It meant so much having you there!”
  • “Thank you for making the journey to be part of our wedding. Your presence made our day extra special!”
  • “We appreciate you traveling all the way to [Location] to celebrate with us. It wouldn’t have been the same without you!”

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Special Situations

Late Thank You Notes (2+ Months)

  • “While this note is overdue, our gratitude is just as strong. Thank you for…”
  • “Better late than never – we’re still so thankful for your wonderful gift…”
  • “Our first months as newlyweds flew by, but we’re still grateful for…”

Pro tip: Like with wedding speeches, honesty and sincerity matter most!

For Guests Who Couldn’t Attend

  • “While we missed you at the wedding, your thoughtful gift means so much to us…”
  • “Though you couldn’t be there in person, your kind wishes and generous gift touched our hearts…”
  • “We’re sorry you couldn’t make it but are so grateful for your wonderful gift…”

Frequently Asked Questions

How long do you have to write thank you cards after wedding?

Traditional etiquette suggests:

  • Ideal timeframe: Within 3 months of the wedding
  • Acceptable window: Up to 6 months
  • For pre-wedding gifts: Within 2 weeks of receiving

However, it’s never too late to express gratitude – better late than never!

What do you write in a wedding thank you card for money?

  1. Express sincere thanks for their generosity
  2. Mention how you plan to use the gift (without stating the amount)
  3. Add a personal note about seeing them at the wedding
  4. Close with warm wishes

Example: “Thank you for your generous wedding gift. We’re putting it toward our dream honeymoon in Italy!”

How do you thank someone for a wedding gift if you don’t like it?

Focus on:

  • Their thoughtfulness in giving a gift
  • Their presence at your wedding
  • The gesture rather than the specific item
  • General appreciation without mentioning specific use

Example: “Thank you for your thoughtful wedding gift and for celebrating with us on our special day.”

Should both bride and groom sign thank you cards?

Best practices for signing thank you cards:

  • Ideal: Both partners sign
  • Acceptable: One partner signs for both using “we”
  • For personal gifts: Person who received signs
  • For shared gifts: Both names recommended

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Role-Specific Speech Examples

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Maid of Honor Example

“[Bride], from late-night study sessions to wedding dress shopping, you’ve been more than a friend – you’re my sister. [Groom], the way you look at her tells me everything I need to know about your love…”

Father of Bride Example

“From the moment I first held you, I knew this day would come. But nothing could prepare me for how proud I would feel seeing the amazing woman you’ve become…”

Brother of Couple Example

“Growing up together, we shared everything – including our worst fashion choices! But today, you’re sharing something much more beautiful – true love…”

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Last Updated: November 2024

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